That is, men gave lower ratings to dates where the man was older.
Likewise, women also rated the dates lower when the man was older than the woman.
Going back to retrieve his forgotten hat, he spots Rafi but she does not see him; he gets his hat, rushes out the door, and hides.
He defrosts the glass a bit to watch her, and she turns around and sees him. The role of Rafi was originally going to be played by Sandra Bullock.
Conversely, women are drawn to older men since they typically have greater resources.