Often the person is immortalized through online memorial sites, photos, or even literal shrines to that person.
If a widower is truly making room in his heart for you, the shrines, photographs, and other ways of commemorating the dead will slowly disappear. If the shrines remain, it’s time to find someone else who doesn't mete out his love to dead idols.
The danger here is that he’ll want you to be the late wife and once he realizes you can’t be the woman he still loves, the relationship will come to a crashing end.
He’s probably worried that they’ll think he’s moving on too fast or, perhaps, won’t be open to the idea of seeing him with someone else.
He might also be concerned that this new relationship will cause friction with other family and friends who are still mourning.
He’ll find a way to make his home and other places you frequent together a place where you’ll feel comfortable. He Won’t Tell You That He Loves You The widower sends you cards, flowers, and chocolates.
You have great dates and fun-filled romantic weekends together.
One of the big adjustments widowers have to make when they become serious with another woman is realizing that you come with your own unique habits and ways of doing things.