And before you know it, your sweet and insecure man will learn to control your life by playing the part of the victim.
A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
He was an exceptionally great guy who loved me and treated me like a princess. A few months into the relationship, he thought my friends were a bad influence on me.
I felt the same way too and decided to spend less time with my friends. It was more like he was concerned about me and cared for me.
[Read: 15 shocking signs of insecurity in a subtly controlling boyfriend] Insecure men aren’t always insecure though.