Please don't mistake being shy for not being self-assured. Please plan a small gathering as opposed to a huge party where 20 strangers will descend on her at once and freak her out.
She's confident in who she is and knows what she wants, even if she may not always 2. She's never been the type of person who *needs* to be in a relationship, or even someone to go to dinner with. She knows what she wants in life and she's determined to make it happen.
Don't call her out for not being able to make eye contact. Realistically speaking, the two of you wouldn't be able to look each other in the eye and everything would be a hot mess.
She finds joy in other people's happiness, and she expects the person she dates to do the same.
She just mixes all the words up when she speaks because meeting new people is exhausting, OK?!