If you've ever taken a commercial airliner, you've heard the flight attendant tell passengers that if there should be a change in pressure and the oxygen mask drops down, parents should always breathe into it first before assisting their children.The theory is that if you don't get any oxygen, you'll be unable to help your child.If you're sacrificing your social life for your children, you're not doing them a favor.
Your decision to date must come from your own readiness to have a social life.
When you feel ready and secure about your decision, your children will come to accept and eventually respect it.
Some of you might be thinking, "I'd love to start dating, but who would want to date someone with four children, a dog, and two parakeets? Don't automatically assume just because you have children, you're less desirable.
There are plenty of people who like children and who want to date someone with children.
On the other hand, you might feel guilty for: * Spending the money * Spending the time * Any of the 101 other reasons parents can find to feel guilty Suppose, for example, that you've been invited out on a date, but you aren't sure whether to accept or not.