It isn't uncommon that the first sexual experience be less extraordinary than expected. If the intercourse hurts and one of the couple feels pain, they can stop the intercourse for a while and start things slowly, later.
If the woman remains bleeding post sexual relation, over twenty four hours time - which is usual for some girls - she must avoid vaginal penetration until the bleeding has stopped completely.
It's necessary mutual trust between partners, as the confidence, to talk about what they are going to do in that telling what feels good and asking to hold on penetration if that comes to be the case.
Using a condom is key element so as to prevent undesired pregnancy and sexual Transmitted Diseases (STDs).
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