: Although not a mistake per se, but more of a conditioning, the average guy gets paralyzed at the thought of getting verbally dirty with women [sexually]. Sparing you the drawn-out proceedings, I’ll get straight into the heart of the matter!
The impact of course will be more profound if done in person as on a date or lying in bed with the girl.
That is how you introduce dirty talking while on a dinner date or any date for that matter. Generally, you can get away with murder when it comes to a girl you’ve already shagged. My crystal ball says that you’re thinking about sex on the beach right now. I’m popping a mean fucking boner just from having a casual chat with you”! It’d be pretty stupid to go up to a girl at the bar and say to her: “You have a nice ass and it’s getting my cock hard”. But for the average Joe reading this, an approach like that will totally crucify you and set off the creepy rape-alert inside the girl’s head.
The key is to start small by insinuating and hinting at sex. A new girl (stranger) for that matter: the awkward factor heightens. Perhaps it’s the cocktail and not actually sex on a beach” ;)! As you become good at this [sexualization], you will then be able to get away with full-blown sex talk from the get-go with random strangers at nightlife settings.
[Motion for her to put a piece of what she’s eating into your mouth] Me: “Eem, yummy! Notice how I didn’t dive right in and say something like: “I want to fuck you”! That was a perfect example of how to initiate sex talk with your girlfriend or wife. Ok guys, hopefully you get the point of how to go sexual (verbally) with strange girls at bars.