You waited and waited and waited, but the messages you received were depressing at best.So, you logged in less frequently, and you received fewer messages.Have you ever been frustrated that a man didn’t open the door? Women keep an internal scorecard of chivalry for men but often times men do not know the rule book by which they are playing. It’s unfair to mark a man down far on your scorecard if he doesn’t know what your expectations.
It’s time for us to embrace the impact of technology on the mating process.
The playing field of courtship has been leveled and it allows for connections to be made and relationships to be formed which would never have had a chance a few short decades ago.
However, the reality is that to incorporate another person into your life it is unrealistic to expect everything to remain exactly the same.
You have lived 40 years of your life a certain way.
The image of men in their 40s, 50s, and 60s chasing after women half their age has driven many woman over 40 into my office.