Pay attention to the way he’s treating you and the language he uses.This will tell you a great deal about his intentions. Just because a man is older and has more experience doesn’t mean he knows everything.For the most part older men are not going to be as insecure as younger men.
Although some older men treat younger women as trophies, not all of them do.
Just as you’d do with a younger man, choose wisely.
Know what you are getting yourself into before you get in too deep. Not only will she be less likely to make your lives less of a living hell, but she’s the best resource for learning who this man is. Plus, if he was ever abusive or unkind to her, you need to know.
Of course some women are bitter and may not be the best judge of your new man’s character.
But, if he has a psycho ex, do you want to bring that into your life?