Averting your eyes or avoiding eye contact tells people that you want to talk to them and will make people avoid you instead.
Want to let women know it’s OK to come talk to you?
If you want women to be approaching you, you have to pay attention to your style, your grooming and your smell.
A good haircut, keeping any facial hair neatly trimmed and clean, stylish clothes that more approachable than the sloppy-looking guy in the baggy sweatshirt with the stains and the jeans that reek of cigarette smoke with bed-head and three days’ worth of stubble. Because it takes advantage of what’s known as the Halo Effect, a cognitive bias that causes our overall impression of someone to affect how we think about them. This doesn’t mean that you need to be rocking a three-piece suit at all hours, but if you’re going out of the house, you want to make sure to take the time to look sharp.
We pick up far more information about a person – consciously and subconsciously – from non-verbal cues than we do from just about any other source.