I’m physically a very attractive woman, and this is sometimes a real curse since a lot of men compete for my attention, and they all seem nice, compassionate, chivalrous, and generous at the beginning, even the alphas and know-it-alls. I would love to have a magic wand that would let me know if I’m wasting my time.” Well, you’re in luck, my friend.
You asked for a “test” that women can give to men to figure out which ones are truly kind and compassionate, instead of selfish players.
Make sure you always keep your non-negotiable/deal-breaker needs in the forefront of your mind and screen your dating partner for goodness-of-fit.
The more experiences you share with him, the more able you will be to test consistency of his behavior and character. “I was very happy with the experience of working with Brian.
I’d say that there are definitely some bad apples out there, but that EVERY man is a player until he finds the woman with whom he wants to stop playing. Most likely, it’s going to be the one who is confident enough in herself and her judgment to not have to administer “tests” to her boyfriend, no matter how fearful you are about wasting your time.
So, to come full circle, let’s give you something you can take away from this article – apart from the concept of being cool and patient and letting the man reveal himself over time.
I’m not sure if you were looking for a physical object (like the aforementioned magic wand), a personality test (like the 436 questions on e Harmony’s profile), or maybe just a subtle series of questions that you can drop into every day conversation (ex.