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They'll take you how they want to take you, and their perceptions of you should really not be your concern.
If you are not hurting anyone, and going about your business in a respectful way to all concerned, I really don't think stranger's opinions of you should mean jack shit.
Um, sounds like to me the main block to your success is simply fear of appearing "slutty".
Well, there's not much unfortunately, you can do about how people see you.
There comes a time in a woman's life she's got to take control and go out there and get what she wants, when she sees what she wants.