If you have had trouble meeting men, I want you to ask yourself if you've really done enough on your part to meet them. Do Your Research: The next thing to do is to do a little "homework." Do some research and find out what things are going on and available in your area. Don't choose things you have no personal interest in just because you think there might be men there to meet.
Just like I tell singles of any age, your perfect person is not just going to show up at your doorstep one day with flowers and a bottle of wine in hand. So I want you to ask yourself if you've done enough. Have you gone on a great online dating site, wrote a really good profile and started contacting some men online? You will not only have more fun, but will also be most successful meeting people, when you are enjoying your life and creating good energy. Make A List: So, I'm challenging you right now to put together a list. You won't believe what is waiting out there for you!
" I have found that you can meet amazing people anywhere and at any age. So many people listen to their friends or the monkey chatter in their own head telling them all the obstacles that stand in their way as a single woman over the age of 35. I don't listen to friends like this, because I find that many singles have attitudes that are just ridiculous.
They love to buy into the negative, instead of the positive.
I have found that you can always find someone who will agree with you when you are looking for confirmation about something negative because most people are negative.