I happen to have met my true love the same time I decided that going to school three hours away was the best choice for me.It was the best choice I could make to grow as an individual.
This shift in romantic expectations is an encouraging indication that alternative relationships may just become the […] Quiz: Should You Be in an Open Relationship?
First comes love, then comes marriage then comes…polyamory?
Nobody understands this more than women of color like Filomena Kaguako, a blogger from Ireland who wrote an open letter about racial fetishization after a disturbing experience on Tinder and Plenty of Fish., Kaguako's suitors send her comments like "was wondering if you know any hot brown/black girls," "just want a new experience" (when asked why he's pursuing black women specifically), and "it's not every man who wants to marry and have children with a black woman." Messages like these make her feel like "just a statistic or something to tick off a check list," she told the outlet.
Kaguako's letter, addressed to "Irishmen," describes why comments like these are so harmful.
Have you ever wondered if an open relationship is for you?