I’ve experienced those gut-twisting feelings, the ones the leave you with a constant sense of impending doom in the pit of your stomach causing you to question everything, including yourself. I mean, there is a lot at stake when you put your heart on the line and you can end up wasting months, or years, of your life on a man who never intended to keep you around for the long haul.
With regards to knowing if he’s really serious about having a relationship with you, what can we do to spare ourselves the time, energy, and heartbreak that goes into determining how a man feels?
When a guy is invested in you and cares about you, he wants to go out of his way to impress you and show you he cares. But even if a guy is jobless and broke and doesn’t have the money to take you out, he’ll find some sort of cheap and creative way to show you he cares.
If he takes vacations from the relationship with no warning it means he isn’t worried about losing you, and this is never a good sign.
If a guy knows for certain that you’ll always be there waiting in the wings, no matter how badly he behaves, he won’t respect you and he definitely won’t want to commit to you–why should he when he knows he doesn’t have to? His disappearing acts serve more as a way to let you know this relationship isn’t serious and he is still free to do what he wants.
After giving this topic a lot of thought and consulting with several guys, I’ve uncovered five tell-tale signs that he isn’t going to commit to you now or ever. You don’t know anything real about him You can talk to someone for hours and hours every day and not know anything real about them.
You might know details about their life, but you don’t know who they are, their real and true self that exists beneath all the superficial fluff.
By keeping you away from his family, he’s essentially saying he doesn’t see you being in his world for the long run.