Intrigued, Carlton called up his old friend and fellow Stanford alum Martha Helen Peasedale, the founder of the dating site Hunger Snuggle.
Within moments of reconnecting, both were delighted to find themselves once again wrapped up in a conversation they’d seemingly been having for years: How could a lack of basic integrity and a complete disregard for human dignity combine to create personal wealth?
The first is not putting themselves out there fast or aggressive enough. They may give the guy the first indicator that they’re interested, but in terms of getting the phone number, or asking her out for a date, going in for a kiss or anything beyond that, women are expecting the guy to make those moves. So you’ll need to pick a good quality about you – you’re a nice guy, or you have a great ass – whatever it is.
The second is going in the other direction and being too fast and aggressive, and not reading women’s cues. That’s where the nice guy who is respectful may lose out because most women are waiting for him to make a move. Keep it something you can get your teeth around, and remind yourself of it. I have people who have a mantra tell me they were walking down the street and as they were saying their mantra they felt people react to them differently.
At the same time, when the club-sandwich icon happened to appear in threads with another Pinky Swhere icon, an old-fashioned television set, users would chat for four times longer than when either icon appeared by itself.