You take the randomness out of trying to meet people, hoping that fate will guide you to THAT ONE SPOT you need to be AT THAT VERY SPECIFIC TIME in order to meet that special someone.
If you have approach anxiety when it comes to meeting strangers in person, online dating gives you all the time you need to calm down and send that message.
There’s a certain value to be had in being a little challenging even, in a playful and charming manner; trying to supplicate your way into a woman’s pants just makes it look like you’re just hoping for a pity date… There are the guys who are so desperate as to be sad, then there are the ones who swing around to the other extreme. Similarly, I don’t care what she implied in her profile.
There are an astounding number of people who mistake being an asshole for being charming. I don’t care how much cleavage she showed in her photo.
so why not simplify things with some all-purpose material that works on everybody?